LOVE♡

So, my favourite topic love! From our early childhood, we are quite familiar with this word, and as as soon as we grow older we get more and more perplexed in this and here starts the journey of exploring love as from childhood, the only thing we know is that we 'know' this epic word! We are never told that what does this great word actually mean, though we all know that its a great thing. So, as we already 'know' this word, then, our journey of exploring it too begin as soon as we enter in our puberty phase. So, here, I am sharing my own exploration on this epic word. An accumulation of personal experiences through readings, learnings and observing.

That journey started visually first. Love is mutual bonding. I learned this from watching movies, serials and by seeing couples. Then, I believed it too. Gradually, I found that there is no any sort of mutual bonding between me and my parents, which then had meant for me that I don't love them, neither they do. And so on I applied this for everyone who was then with me that time.

Time passed.

Again a phase came in life, puberty phase, and, that definition of love changed again! I got to know that love is nothing but an emotional attachment. Well, I found this definition quite suitable than before. And, hence, I accordingly, followed it happily.

But, WAIT! 

For the first time then I had felt a major hurt. And that hurt prevailed for a longer time as I was not concern that this emotional attachment leads to hurt as well! So, then, I come to know about this word "ATTACHMENT":

Attachment=expectation=happiness/hurt=

positive/negative energies or feelings.

It gives happiness when expectation meets, and gives hurt, when it doesn't.

But, still, I was confused that how this much great word Love can give hurt! 

Time passed.

Started exploring spirituality. 

Started exploring I.

Started exploring love.

Got to know, 

Love doesn't possess the two aspects i.e. hurt+happiness like that of attachment. It has only one aspect, that is happiness as love is acceptation, not expectation. Its bliss, its singularity. ❤

Its you. ❤

Its me. ❤

And, from then only, I never tried to find love outside.